With the increasing polarization we’re seeing these days, many of us long for harmony. Yet what if this divisiveness offers hidden opportunities for growth, both individually and collectively? It has become clear to me how profoundly our view of the world depends...
Have you noticed that trying to get rid of the inner critic never works? It just goes underground and pops up in the most inconvenient times. Imagine instead having a heartfelt conversation with your inner critic. If you go in with open curiosity, you might find...
When challenges arise at work, it’s tempting to put your head down and push harder. But if this behavior leads to burnout, something needs to change. Sometimes it is time to change the environment, but that’s often not enough. I learned this lesson the hard way....
Do you ever plan to do something, but it keeps not happening? Look for the part of you that doesn’t have the same agenda. One of my clients I’ll call Rick struggled with time management, and he created a beautiful plan to organize his day. However, no matter how...
Do you wake up excited and motivated to start your work day, or does the thought of work bring you down? Your motivation plays a key role in determining your work fulfillment, and what motivates you may be different than for others. Some are fired up by the pursuit...
A client I’ll call Rob was thrilled with the purpose that he found. His purpose essence was “the peace of presence in the moment.” His purpose impact was “to bring peace and wholeness to those who are in conflict.” His purpose mission was “to create peace and...
Do you find yourself saying “yes” when you really want to say “no” instead? This is particularly challenging if you already feel overwhelmed. It could be one more project from your boss when you already have too much on your plate, or a request to meet a friend at...
Is it easier for you to give appreciation than to receive appreciation? There’s the old fear of being “too full of myself.” But I laugh when I remember “Who else would I be full of anyway?” Fully and deeply taking in appreciation can cause a few things to happen: A...
